Nkumushinga wibicuruzwa byabana, twumva ko guhitamo igihe cyo kwimura abana bava mubitabo ari impungenge rusange kuri buri mubyeyi, cyane cyane mukarere k’imico itandukanye nku Burayi.
Mubyeyi, wigeze wibaza imyaka ingahe abana b'abanyaburayi bava mumyenda? Iki kibazo gisa nkicyoroshye kirimo ibintu byinshi birimo iterambere ryumwana, umuco, hamwe na filozofiya yababyeyi.
Muri iyi si yisi yisi yose, gusobanukirwa imikorere yababyeyi mu turere dutandukanye ntabwo byagura gusa icyerekezo ahubwo binadufasha guhitamo inzira nziza yiterambere ryabana bacu. Iyi ngingo izagushikana cyane mugihe cya Gukoresha impuzu zi Burayi nibintu byumuco inyuma yacyo.
Ibitekerezo byababyeyi byu Burayi: Ukuri Kubijyanye no Gukoresha Impapuro zi Burayi
Mu bihugu by’Uburayi, igihe cyo gukoresha impapuro ni kirekire cyane ugereranije n’uturere tumwe na tumwe. Dukurikije ubushakashatsi bwakozwe ninzobere mu kurera n’ubushakashatsi bwinshi, ubusanzwe abana b’i Burayi bakoresha impuzu kugeza ku myaka 3, bamwe bakomeza ndetse birebire. Iyi myitozo ituruka ku kuba ababyeyi b’abanyaburayi bubaha ubwigenge bw’abana mu myitozo y’ubwiherero - bizera ko abana bazahinduka mugihe biteguye kumubiri no mubitekerezo.
Bitandukanye n’imyitozo yo mu turere tumwe na tumwe two kwihutira kurangiza imyitozo y’inkono mbere y’imyaka 2, ababyeyi b’i Burayi bashyigikiye uburyo 'amaboko', bigatuma abana bakura ku muvuduko wabo. Iyi filozofiya y'ababyeyi ivuga ko imyitozo ya potty imburagihe ishobora kugira ingaruka mbi kumikurire yumubiri no mumitekerereze.
Isoko ry’iburayi ritanga ubufasha bwuzuye bwibicuruzwa kuri ubu buryo, hagaragaramo impapuro zose z’iburayi kuva impinja kugeza ku bana bato bafite imyaka itatu cyangwa ine. Ibi birimo ibipapuro bisanzwe bikoreshwa hamwe nudupapuro twihariye two koga.
Nigute Wabwirwa Niba Umwana wawe Yiteguye Gusezera Kumpapuro zi Burayi?
Umwana wese akurikiza igihe cye bwiterambere, ariko ibimenyetso bimwe byingenzi byerekana ko bashobora kuba biteguye gutangira imyitozo yinkono:
Umwana arashobora kuguma yumye mubitabo byabo mugihe kinini, kugeza kumasaha 3-6 icyarimwe, byerekana imikorere yimpago no kugenzura;
Umwana arashobora gukurura byoroshye ipantaro hejuru no hasi yigenga;
Umwana atangira kumenya kumva ko akeneye gukoresha ubwiherero kandi ashobora kubigaragaza binyuze mumaso, amagambo, cyangwa ibikorwa;
Umwana agaragaza ko ashishikajwe n'ubwiherero bukuze kandi ashobora kwigana ababyeyi akoresheje ubwiherero;
Umwana arashobora gusobanukirwa no gukurikiza amabwiriza yoroshye, nka 'Genda ubone idubu yawe ya teddy ';
Iyo ibi bimenyetso bigaragaye, ababyeyi barashobora gutangira buhoro buhoro kuyobora umwana wabo kugana kure yimyenda yuburayi. Ariko, ni ngombwa gukomeza kwihangana no kudategereza intsinzi nijoro.
Itandukaniro ryumuco nibiranga uturere mumahugurwa yubwiherero bwiburayi
Ibikorwa byo kurera nabyo biratandukanye muburyo bwibihugu byuburayi. Ibihugu byo mu majyaruguru bikunze gushimangira ubwigenge bwabana, bikunda kubareka bagahitamo igihe cyo kwimura burundu impapuro; ibihugu byamajyepfo yuburayi birashobora gutanga ubuyobozi bufatika nyuma yimyaka runaka.
Iri tandukaniro ry’umuco rigaragarira mu bigo rusange byo mu Burayi - aho n’ubwiherero bwibanze hafi ya hose burimo ubwiherero bworoshye na sitasiyo zihindura abana. Ibikorwa remezo byuzuye byoroshya gukomeza gukoresha impapuro kubabyeyi, bigabanya umuvuduko wamahugurwa ya potty hakiri kare.
Imiyoborere yemewe kumahugurwa ya potty, nkayatanzwe na Ikigo cy’igihugu cy’ubuzima cy’Ubwongereza (NHS), gishimangira gukurikiza umuvuduko w’umwana no kwirinda agahato. Aya mabwiriza ahuza na filozofiya yagutse y’ababyeyi yo kubaha injyana ya buri mwana ku giti cye.
Gusobanukirwa Igihe Cyiza cyo Guhugura Potty
Intsinzi y'amahugurwa ya potty ishingiye kumyiteguro yumubiri na psychologiya yumwana. Inzego zemewe muri rusange zemeranya ko igihe gikwiye cyo gutangira imyitozo ari hagati y’amezi 18 na 30. Ni ukubera ko:
Kugenzura uruhago rwumwana gukura buhoro buhoro hafi amezi 18, bibafasha guhorana impapuro zabo byibuze amasaha 1-2.
Mugihe cyimyaka 2, abana bamwe barashobora kugenzura inkari kumanywa, mugihe benshi bagera kubuhanga bwibanze kumyaka 3.
Kuryama nijoro birashobora kumara igihe kirekire - hafi 1 kuri 5 mubana barashobora gukomeza guhura nibice nyuma yimyaka 5, mubisanzwe.
Kubwibyo, aho gukosora kumyaka runaka, witondere witonze ibimenyetso byumwana wawe 'byerekana ko witeguye, ' nka:
Kubasha kuvugana icyifuzo cyo gukoresha ubwiherero mu magambo cyangwa mubikorwa.
Kumva utamerewe neza nigitambaro gitose cyangwa kwerekana ko ushishikajwe nubwiherero bukuze.
Kubasha kumva no gukurikiza amabwiriza yoroshye.
Irinde imitego ya 'imyitozo mishya yuburyo bwa potty '
Bitandukanye nihame ryo kubahiriza umuvuduko wumwana, imyitozo izwi nka 'imyitozo mishya yuburyo bwa potty ' itanga ubwitonzi. Ibi birashobora kwigaragaza nka: guhatira umwana kwicara kuri potty mugihe cyagenwe kugeza 'barangije umurimo, ' cyangwa kubaha ruswa nibikinisho cyangwa udukoryo kugirango bakureho.
Mu byingenzi, ubu buryo ntaho butandukaniye namahugurwa ya potty gakondo - byombi birimo kwifashisha ibihimbano bihungabanya imiterere yimiterere yumwana. Gukoresha igihe kirekire birashobora kongera ibyago byo guturika kwa anal, kugumana intebe, no kuribwa mu nda, cyangwa bigatera ubwoba no kurwanya ubwiherero, amaherezo bikongerera imyitozo.
Filozofiya y'ababyeyi b'Abanyaburayi: Ubwenge bwo Kubaha no Kwihangana
Ihangane ababyeyi b'Abanyaburayi bagaragaza mu mahugurwa ya potty yashinze imizi mu mahame yimbitse y'ababyeyi.
Kubaha Umwanya Umuntu :
Amabwiriza y’imyigishirize y’igihugu cy’Ubutaliyani ashyira imbere 'kubahiriza amategeko karemano n’injyana y’iterambere ry’abana. ' Iyi filozofiya igera no ku mahugurwa y’inkono, aho ababyeyi bizera ko abana bazahinduka bisanzwe iyo biteguye kumubiri no mumarangamutima.
Gushimangira ubwigenge :
Ababyeyi bo muburengerazuba babona abana nkabantu bigenga, babashishikariza guhitamo bashingiye kubushake bwabo. Mu myitozo ya potty, ibi bigaragarira nko kwemerera abana gushakisha, kugerageza, ndetse no gutsindwa, aho kwemera gahunda.
Kwibanda ku Iterambere Ryuzuye :
Imyitozo yo kurera yabanyaburayi ishyira imbere iterambere ryabana muri rusange. Amahugurwa ya potty afatwa nkintambwe iganisha ku bwigenge, akamaro kayo karenze kure kumenya ubuhanga bumwe.
Uburyo bwo kuyobora abana mubisanzwe
Mugihe wubaha umwana, ababyeyi barashobora gufata umwanya wubuyobozi bukora:
Kurema Ibidukikije :
Shira inkono nziza ahantu hamenyerewe, byoroshye kuboneka, ubemerera kubanza kubyakira nkigikinisho gishimishije 'igikinisho. '
Icyitegererezo no Gushyikirana :
Koresha ibitabo by'amashusho kugirango ubisobanure, cyangwa ureke abana bitegereze abagize umuryango bakoresheje umusarani, ubafashe kumva intego ya potty.
Kwihangana no gutera inkunga :
Mubashimire bidatinze mugihe bakoresheje neza potty. Niba impanuka zibaye, komeza utuze kandi wirinde kunegura.
Muri make, imyitozo ya potty ntabwo ari ubwoko hagati yababyeyi nabana. Nkuko byunganirwa na filozofiya yababyeyi yuburayi, kureka guhangayika, kwizera igihe umwana wawe yavukiyemo, kandi akabaherekeza yihanganye kandi agutera inkunga bizatuma iki cyiciro gisanzwe cyo gukura cyuzuyemo ubushyuhe ninkunga.
Ingamba zifatika: Gahunda yinzibacyuho Yoroheje yo Kurandura Impapuro zi Burayi
Iyo umwana wawe yerekanye ibimenyetso byiteguye, izi ngamba zirashobora gufasha korohereza inzibacyuho nziza:
Tangira hamwe namahugurwa yo ku manywa: Nyuma y'amezi 18, tangira gukuramo ibipapuro kumanywa kandi utoze umwana wawe gukoresha inkono cyangwa umusarani kugirango yinkari, mugihe ukomeje gukoresha ibipapuro byaburayi nijoro. Mugihe uruhago rugenda rutera imbere, gahoro gahoro ukuraho impapuro zijoro.
Shiraho inzira: Shyiramo gusura potty mubikorwa bya buri munsi - kuyobora umwana wawe gukoresha inkono nyuma yo kubyuka, mbere yo kurya, na mbere yo kuryama.
Gushimangira Ibyiza: Koresha imbonerahamwe yigihembo, ishimwe, nogutera inkunga kugirango ushimangire uburambe bwa potty. Irinde ibihano cyangwa kunegura impanuka.
Ibikoresho bikwiye: Tegura ibinini bingana n’abana cyangwa adaptate yintebe yubwiherero, hamwe n imyenda yoroshye gukuramo, kugirango habeho imiterere yumubiri ifasha gukoresha neza inkono.
Ihangane gusubira inyuma: Kwisubiraho mugihe cy'amahugurwa ya potty nibisanzwe, cyane cyane mugihe cyo guhindura ubuzima (nko kwimuka, abavandimwe bashya) cyangwa ibihe bitesha umutwe.
Kubijyanye no kurara nijoro, ababyeyi babanyaburayi birinda kwihutisha inzira. Mubyukuri, kuryama birasanzwe cyane hagati yimyaka 5-7. Abahanga benshi barasaba gukomeza gukoresha ibipapuro byijoro byu Burayi kugeza umwana ahora akangutse hamwe nigituba cyumye mugitondo gikurikiranye.
Wubahe itandukaniro kandi utegereze wihanganye: Buri mwana afite umuvuduko we.
Amahugurwa yubwiherero nicyiciro kimwe gusa mumikurire yumwana - ntabwo ari ubwoko. Imikorere y'ababyeyi b'Abanyaburayi iratwibutsa ko kubaha injyana ya buri mwana ku giti cye akenshi biganisha ku ngaruka nziza kandi nziza z'igihe kirekire.
Nkuko bikorwa n'ababyeyi b'Abanyaburayi, kwibanda ku byo umwana wawe akeneye mu iterambere ndetse n'ibimenyetso by'imyitwarire - aho gukurikiza ibihe bishingiye ku ngengabihe ishingiye ku myaka - bibafasha kugera kuri iyi ntambwe y'ingenzi mu buryo bworoshye bushoboka.
Niba wifuza kumenya byinshi kubyerekeye guhitamo imyaka ijyanye nudupapuro twiburayi cyangwa ukeneye ubundi buyobozi bwamahugurwa ya potty, sura iwacu urubuga rwemewe kubindi bikoresho byumwuga. Twiyemeje gutanga ubushakashatsi bushingiye, bufatika bufatika kubabyeyi kwisi yose.
