Semugadziri wezvigadzirwa zvevana, tinonzwisisa kuti kusarudza nguva yekubvisa vana kubva mumanapukeni chinhu chinonetsa mubereki wese, kunyanya munzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana seEurope.
Somubereki, wakambozvibvunza here kuti izera ripi vana vekuEurope vanowanzochinja kubva mumanapukeni? Uyu mubvunzo unoratidzika kuva wakapfava unobatanidza zvinhu zvakawanda zvinosanganisira kukura kwemwana, tsika dzetsika, uye uzivi hwekurera vana.
Munyika yanhasi yepasi rose, kunzwisisa maitiro ekurera vana munzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana hakungokwidziri maonero edu chete asiwo kunotibatsira kusarudza zvirinani nzira yebudiriro yevana vedu. Ichi chinyorwa chichakutora iwe zvakadzama mukati menguva ye Kushandiswa kweEuropean diaper uye zvetsika zvinokonzeresa.
European Parenting Maonero: Chokwadi Pamusoro peEuropean Diaper Usage Ages
Munyika dzeEurope, nguva yekushandiswa kwe diaper yakareba zvakanyanya kana ichienzaniswa nemamwe matunhu. Zvinoenderana nezvinocherechedzwa nenyanzvi dzekurera vana uye zvidzidzo zvakawanda, vana vekuEurope vanowanzo shandisa manapukeni kusvika vasvika makore matatu, vamwe vachienderera mberi. Kuita uku kunobva mukuremekedza kwevabereki vekuEurope kuzvitonga kwevana mukudzidziswa kwechimbuzi - vanotenda kuti vana vanozoshanduka kana vagadzirira mumuviri nepfungwa.
Kusiyana netsika mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzekumhanyira kupedza kudzidziswa kwepoto vasati vasvika makore maviri, vabereki vekuEurope vanofarira nzira ye 'maoko-off', inobvumira vana kukura nekukurumidza kwavo. Uhwu huzivi hwekurera vana hunobata kuti kudzidziswa kwepoto nguva isati yakwana kunogona kukanganisa kukura kwemwana mumuviri uye mupfungwa.
Musika weEurope unopa rutsigiro rwakakwana rwechigadzirwa cheiyi nzira, ine huwandu hwakazara hweEuropean manapukeni kubva kune vachangozvarwa kusvika kune vadiki vane makore matatu kana mana. Izvi zvinosanganisira manapukeni akajairwa anoraswa uye akasarudzika ekushambira.
Matauriro Ekutaura Kana Mwana Wako Akagadzirira Kutaura Nekuonekana kune European Diapers?
Mwana wese anotevera nguva yake yekukura, asi zvimwe zviratidzo zvinokosha zvinowanzoratidza kuti vangave vakagadzirira kutanga kudzidzira potty:
Mwana anogona kugara akaomeswa mumucheka wavo kwenguva yakareba, kusvika maawa 3-6 panguva imwe, achiratidza kuvandudzwa kwebasa uye kutonga;
Mwana anogona nyore kudhonza bhurugwa kumusoro uye pasi akazvimiririra;
Mwana anotanga kuona kunzwa kwokuda kushandisa imba yokugezera uye anogona kutaura ikoku kupfurikidza nechitarisiko chechiso, mashoko, kana kuti zviito;
Mwana anoratidza kufarira zvimbuzi zvevakuru uye angatevedzera vabereki vachishandisa imba yekugezera;
Mwana anogona kunzwisisa uye kutevera mirayiridzo iri nyore, yakadai seyo 'Enda unotora teddy bear yako';
Kana zviratidzo izvi zvichionekwa, vabereki vanogona kutanga zvishoma nezvishoma kutungamirira mwana wavo kuenda kune imwe nzira kubva kuEurope diapers. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti urambe uine moyo murefu uye usatarisira kubudirira kwehusiku humwe.
Cultural Differences uye Dunhu Hunhu muEuropean Toilet Training
Maitiro ekurera vana anosiyanawo zvinyoro-nyoro munyika dzese dzeEurope. Nyika dzeNordic dzinowanzosimbisa kuzvitonga kwevana, dzichida kuvabvumira kuti vasarudze nguva yekudzima diapers; nyika dzekumaodzanyemba kweEurope dzinogona kupa nhungamiro inoshanda mushure mezera rakati.
Musiyano uyu wetsika unoratidzwa munzvimbo dzeveruzhinji muEurope yose — uko kunyangwe zvimbudzi zvekutanga zvepasi rose zvinosanganisira zvimbudzi zvinosvikika uye zviteshi zvekuchinja vana. Mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro anogonesa kuenderera mberi kwekushandisa diaper kuvabereki, kuderedza kumanikidzwa kwekutanga kudzidziswa kwepoto.
Ane mvumo madhairekitori pakudzidziswa kwepoto, seaya anopihwa ne The UK's National Health Service (NHS), inosimbisa kutevera kukurumidza kwemwana uye kudzivisa kumanikidzirwa. Mitemo iyi inofambirana nehuchenjeri hwekurera vana hweEurope hwekuremekedza mutinhimira wekukura kwemwana wega wega.
Kunzwisisa Iyo Yakakwana Nguva Yekudzidzisa Potty
Kubudirira kwekudzidzira kwehari kunobva pakugadzirira kwemwana uye mupfungwa. Mitumbi ine chiremera inowanzobvumirana kuti nguva yakakodzera kwazvo yekutanga kudzidziswa iri pakati pe18 ne30 mwedzi yezera. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti:
Kudzora dundira kwemwana kunokura zvishoma nezvishoma mwedzi inenge gumi nemisere, zvichiita kuti akwanise kuchengeta manapukeni ake akaoma kweinenge maawa 1-2.
Nezera re2, vamwe vana vanogona kudzora kuita weti kwemasikati, nepo vazhinji vachiwana kugona kwekutanga pazera 3.
Kuitira weti panguva yousiku kungapfuurira kwenguva refu—anenge mwana mumwe muvashanu angangosangana nenhambo nenhambo pashure pezera ramakore 5, kazhinji kazhinji.
Naizvozvo, panzvimbo pokugadzirira pazera chairo, nyatsocherechedza 'zviratidzo zvekugadzirira' zvemwana wako zvakadai se:
Kukwanisa kutaurirana kukosha kwekushandisa imba yekugezera nemuromo kana nezviito.
Kunzwa kusagadzikana kubva pamucheka wakanyorova kana kuratidza kufarira zvimbuzi zvevakuru.
Kukwanisa kunzwisisa uye kutevera mirairo iri nyore.
Dzivisa misungo ye 'new-style kudzidzira poto'
Mukupesana nenheyo yokuremekedza kumhanya kwomwana, muitiro unozivikanwa se 'new-style potty training' unopa ngwariro. Izvi zvingaratidza se: kumanikidza mwana kugara pahari panguva dzakatarwa kutozosvikira 'apedza basa,' kana kuti kumupa chiokomuhomwe nematoyi kana kuti tudyo kuti abvise.
Chaizvoizvo, nzira iyi haina kusiyana nekudzidziswa kwehari yechinyakare-zvose zvinosanganisira kupindira kwekugadzira kunovhiringidza maitiro emwana ekubvisa. Kushandiswa kwenguva refu kunogona kuwedzera njodzi yekutsemuka kweanal, kuchengetedza chigaro, uye kuvimbiswa, kana kutokonzeresa kutya uye kuramba kuenda kuchimbuzi, zvichizowedzera nguva yekudzidzira.
European Parenting Philosophy: Uchenjeri hweKuremekedza uye Kushivirira
Mwoyo murefu unoratidzwa nevabereki vekuEurope mukudzidziswa kwehari kwakavakirwa pamisimboti yakadzama yekurera vana.
Kuremekedza Kumhanya Kwemunhu :
Nhungamiro dzedzidzo yenyika dzeItaly dzinoisa pokutanga 'kuremekedza mitemo yechisikigo uye mutinhimira wekukura kwevana.' Uzivi uhwu hunoenderera mberi kusvika kukudzidziswa kwehari, uko vabereki vanovimba kuti vana vachangochinja kana vagadzirira mumuviri uye mupfungwa.
Kusimbisa Autonomy :
Kurera vana vokuMadokero vanoona vana sevanhu vakazvimirira, vachivakurudzira kuita sarudzo maererano nezvavanoda. Mukudzidziswa kwehari, izvi zvinoratidzira sekubvumira vana kuongorora, kuedza, uye kunyange kuona kukundikana, pane kungobvuma gadziriro.
Kutarisa paHolistic Development :
Maitiro ekurera vana eEurope anoisa pamberi pekukura kwevana. Kudzidziswa kwehari kunoonekwa sechiitiko chakakosha kune rusununguko, kukosha kwayo kunosvika kure kupfuura kugona hunyanzvi humwe.
Nzira Yokutungamirira Vana Nayo Nomuzvarirwo
Pavanenge vachiremekedza mwana, vabereki vanogona kutora basa revatungamiri vanoshanda:
Gadzira Environment :
Isa hari yakanaka munzvimbo yakajairika, inosvikika zviri nyore, zvichiita kuti vatange kuigamuchira se 'toyi' inofadza.
Model uye Kutaurirana :
Shandisa mabhuku emifananidzo kutsanangura, kana kuti rega vana vatarise nhengo dzemhuri dzichishandisa chimbuzi, uchivabatsira kunzwisisa chinangwa chepoto.
Kushivirira uye Kukurudzira :
Varumbidze nekukurumidza kana vakabudirira kushandisa potty. Kana tsaona dzikaitika, dzikama uye dzivisa kutsoropodzwa.
Muchidimbu, kurovedza potty hakusi nhangemutange pakati pevabereki nevana. Sezvinorevererwa neuzivi hwekurera vana vekuEurope, kurega kufunganya, kuvimba nezera rekukura kwemwana wako, uye kuvaperekedza nemoyo murefu nekurudziro kuchaita kuti nhanho iyi yemusikirwo yekukura izere nekudziya nerutsigiro.
Maitiro Anoshanda: A Smooth Transition Plan yeKurumura Kubva kuEuropean Diapers
Kana mwana wako achiratidza zviratidzo zvekugadzirira, mazano aya anogona kubatsira kufambisa shanduko yakanaka:
Tanga Nekudzidzisa Kwemasikati: Pashure pemwedzi 18, tanga kubvisa madiapers mukati mezuva uye dzidzisa mwana wako kushandisa poto kana kuti chimbuzi kuti aite weti, uchiramba uchishandisa madiaper eEurope usiku. Sezvo kudzora dundira kunowedzera, zvishoma nezvishoma bvisa madiapers ehusiku.
Gadzira Miitiro: Batanidza kushanya kwehari mumitambo yezuva nezuva-tungamirira mwana wako kushandisa potty mushure mokumuka, asati adya, uye asati avata.
Kusimbisa Kwakanaka: Shandisa machati emubairo, kurumbidza, uye kurudziro kusimbisa zviitiko zvakabudirira zvehari. Dzivisa kurangwa kana kutsoropodzwa nezvetsaona.
Midziyo Yakakodzera: Gadzirira mapoto ane saizi yemwana kana maadapter ezvigaro zvechimbuzi, pamwe chete nembatya dziri nyore kubvisa, kuti ugadzire mamiriro emuviri anoita kuti poto ibudirire.
Iva nemoyo murefu nezvipingamupinyi: Kudzokororwa panguva yekudzidziswa kwehari kwakajairika, kunyanya panguva yekuchinja kwehupenyu (sekufamba, vanin'ina vatsva) kana nguva dzinonetsa.
Nezve kubviswa kwehusiku, vabereki vekuEurope vanowanzo dzivirira kumhanyisa maitiro. Muchokwadi, weti pamubhedha wakajairika pakati pevane makore 5-7. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinokurudzira kuenderera mberi nekushandisa manheru eEurope diapers kusvikira mwana achigara achimuka ane diaper yakaoma kwemangwanani akawanda akatevedzana.
Remekedza misiyano uye mirira nemoyo murefu: Mwana wese ane nhanho yake.
Kurovedza chimbuzi idanho rimwe chete rokukura kwomwana—kwete nhangemutange. Miitiro yokurera vana vokuEurope inotiyeuchidza kuti kuremekedza rhythm yekukura kwemwana mumwe nomumwe kunowanzoita kuti pave nemigumisiro yakanaka yenguva refu.
Sezvinoitwa nevabereki vekuEurope, kuisa pfungwa pazvido zvemwana wako zvekukura zvakasiyana-siyana uye maitiro ekuita-panzvimbo pekugadzirisa pazera rekarenda-kunovabatsira kuti vabudirire ichi chinokosha nenzira yakagadzikana.
Kana uchida kudzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pekusarudza zera rinoenderana nezera reEuropean manapukeni kana kuti uchida mamwe nhungamiro yekudzidzisa poto, shanya yedu yepamutemo webhusaiti yekuwedzera nyanzvi zviwanikwa. Takazvipira kupa rubatsiro rwekutsvagisa, runoshanda kuvabereki kuvabereki pasi rese.
