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Ana ambiri amakhala okonzeka pakati pa miyezi 18 ndi 36. Ili ndilo yankho loona mtima la nthawi yoti muyambe maphunziro a potty, ndipo imakhudza mitundu yambiri, yathanzi. American Academy of Pediatrics ikupereka lingaliro loyambitsa poto pafupi ndi miyezi 18, kenako kuyang'ana zizindikiro zomveka zokonzeka, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimawonekera pakati pa miyezi 18 ndi 30. Ana ena amapita ku maphunziro a potty pafupi ndi tsiku lawo lobadwa lachiwiri. Ena amafuna nthawi yambiri, ndipo zimenezinso n’zachibadwa. Mutha kuda nkhawa kuti mwayamba msanga kapena mochedwa. Yesetsani kupanikizika. Njira yotsogozedwa ndi ana imagwira ntchito bwino, ndipo ana ambiri amatha kuyanika masana azaka zapakati pa 2 ndi 3.
Ana ambiri ali okonzeka kuphunzitsidwa potty pakati pa miyezi 18 ndi 36. Komabe, zizindikiro zoti mwana ndi wokonzeka zimafunika kwambiri kuposa msinkhu wawo.
Yang'anani zizindikiro zakuthupi, monga a thewera youma kwa maola awiri. Yang'ananinso luso lamagalimoto, monga kukokera mathalauza pansi.
Kuganiza ndi kumva zizindikiro monga kutsatira njira zosavuta ndi kusonyeza chidwi bafa.
Konzekerani ndi poto yomwe ikugwirizana ndi mwana wanu, zovala zosavuta kuvula, ndipo yesetsani popanda kukakamizidwa kuti muwathandize kukhala omasuka.
Ngati mwana wanu akumenyana nazo kapena sakuwoneka kuti ali ndi chidwi, imani ndi kuyesanso nthawi ina; kukhala wodekha n’kofunika.
Ana ambiri amasonyeza kuti ali okonzeka pakati pa miyezi 18 ndi 36. Ndilo yankho lalifupi la nthawi yoyenera yambitsani maphunziro a potty . Komabe kalendala yokha imakuuzani zochepa kwambiri. Kukonzekera ndikofunikira kwambiri kuposa zaka, ndipo lingalirolo liyenera kutsogolera njira yanu yonse. Mitundu yathanzi ndi yotakata. Mukhoza kuyamba maphunziro a potty ndi chidaliro pamene zizindikiro zikuyenda.
Kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti kukonzekera poto sikuchokera ku tsiku limodzi lobadwa. Kukonzekera kwachitukuko kumakula pang'onopang'ono kuchokera ku kulamulira chikhodzodzo, kukhwima kwa dongosolo lamanjenje, kuzindikira kwa thupi, luso la magalimoto, kulankhulana, ndi kulamulira maganizo. Ana aŵiri amsinkhu wofanana amasiyana m’maganizo, mkhalidwe, ndi kuzindikira kwa thupi. Mwana m'modzi wazaka 20 ali wokonzeka kuphunzitsidwa poto. Zofunikira zina mpaka 3. Kukankhira molawirira kungayambitsenso mantha, kuletsa, ndi kulimbirana mphamvu. Kafukufuku amathandizira njira yomvera, yothandizira m'malo mwa kuphunzitsa mwamphamvu. Penyani kukonzekera mu luso ndi khalidwe, osati m'miyezi. Mwana amene amatsatira malangizo osavuta a masitepe awiri ndi kukokera mathalauza pansi amakhala ndi chiyambi chenicheni. Chidwi ndi mgwirizano ndi nyali zobiriwira zamphamvu. Mwana yemwe amasonyeza onse awiri amakhala okonzeka kuyamba maphunziro a potty.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa zenera labwino la miyezi 18 mpaka 30. Ana ambiri amawonetsa zizindikiro zawo zamphamvu kwambiri pakadutsa miyezi 24 mpaka 27. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mwana aliyense ayenera kuphunzitsa pofika zaka 2. Ganizirani za msinkhu pamodzi ndi kukonzekera kakulidwe. Mwana wanu angakhale wokonzeka kuyamba maphunziro a kuchimbudzi adakali aang’ono kapena pambuyo pake. Yang'anani nthawi yoyenera kuti muyambe maphunziro a potty poyang'ana luso, osati tsiku. Dzifunseni nokha pamene muyenera kuyamba maphunziro potty, ndiye onani ngati mwana wanu ali okonzeka kuphunzira poto m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Thewera youma mutatha kugona ndi chidwi chenicheni mu bafa amakuuzani zambiri kuposa tchati chilichonse. Ana ena amaphunzitsa m’milungu yochepa. Ena amatenga miyezi ingapo. Njira zonse ziwirizi ndizabwinobwino. Khulupirirani kuzungulira kwachiwiri kwa zizindikiro pamene zikuwonekera.
Makolo nthawi zambiri amafunsa kuti ndi zaka zingati kuti ayambe maphunziro a potty, ndipo yankho loona mtima limakwirira nthawi yayitali. Ana ambiri amayamba pakati pa miyezi 18 ndi zaka zitatu. Mwana aliyense amakula pa liwiro lake, kotero palibe mwezi umodzi womwe umakwanira aliyense. Funso la nthawi yoyambira maphunziro a potty limabwera paulendo wa miyezi 18, zaka 2, zaka 2½, ndi zaka zitatu. Kuyang'ana kumeneko kumakupatsani mwayi wofunsa mafunso ndikuyerekeza zolemba ndi dokotala wanu wa ana.
Ana ang'onoang'ono amawonetsa zizindikiro zomveka bwino asanakwane kubadwa kwachiwiri. Mwana wa m’gululi amalankhulana bwino ndi zosowa zake, amadzuka m’tulo atavala thewera wouma, n’kupita kuchimbudzi. Angathandize kuchotsa zovala, kusonyeza chidwi cha potty, kapena kusakonda matewera onyowa kuti apemphe kusintha. Iye akhozanso funsani zovala zamkati ngati m'bale wamkulu. Kuyenda kwathupi ndikofunikira apa: kuyenda mosasunthika komanso kukhala pansi ndikuyimirira nokha. Kukhala ndi kuima paokha kumafunikanso. Mwana wanu ayenera kudzitsitsa pamphika kapena chopondapo ndikudzuka popanda thandizo. Kumvetsetsa malangizo kumafunikanso. Mwana wamng'ono yemwe amatsatira njira yachidule ya masitepe awiri, monga kukokera mathalauza pansi ndi kukhala, amakhala ndi chiyambi chenicheni. Zenerali nthawi zambiri limagwira ntchito bwino chifukwa ana ang'onoang'ono amakhala ndi chidwi komanso ogwirizana asanafike gawo la 'ayi!' Kafukufuku amatsimikizira izi. Ana amene anayamba miyezi yapakati pa 18 ndi 24 ankatenga miyezi 13 mpaka 14 kuti aphunzitse, poyerekeza ndi miyezi 10 kapena kucheperapo kwa amene anayamba pambuyo pa miyezi 27. Oyamba achichepere sakanathanso kuchita ngozi kapena kukana chopondapo, koma maphunziro adangotenga nthawi yayitali. Mutha kuyambitsa maphunziro a potty pano ndi chidaliro ngati zizindikiro zikuyenda.
Ndiye ndi zaka ziti zabwino kwambiri zoyambira maphunziro a potty? Kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti miyezi 27 mpaka 32 ndi malo okoma kwa ana ambiri. The Avereji ya zaka zoyambira maphunziro a poto ku US tsopano yakhala pa miyezi 33, kuchokera pa miyezi 24 mu 1970s. Zenera lodziwika kwambiri loyambira ndi miyezi 25 mpaka 30, ndipo mabanja ochepa amayamba miyezi 18 isanakwane kapena miyezi 42 ikatha. Ana ambiri amayamba pakati pa miyezi 21 ndi 36, koma 40 mpaka 60 peresenti amatha ndi miyezi 36. Mpata umenewo umakuuzani chinthu chothandiza. Ana ambiri amaphunzirabe atadutsa zaka zitatu zakubadwa, ndipo zimenezi n’zachibadwa. Kuyambira patatha miyezi 32 kungayambitse ngozi zambiri komanso zovuta. Zaka zoyenera kupita ku sitima yapamadzi zimatengera zizindikiro, osati kalendala. Penyani kukonzekera mu luso ndi khalidwe. Kukonzekera kwachitukuko kumakula kuchokera kulamulira chikhodzodzo, kuzindikira kwa thupi, ndi kulankhulana. Pafupifupi zaka zophunzitsira za mphika / zokonzekera zimakhala pakati pa zaka ziwiri ndi zitatu, kotero mwana wanu ali ndi malo ambiri. Ganizirani za msinkhu wa maphunziro a potty monga nthawi, osati tsiku lomaliza. M'badwo wotsatira wamaphunziro a mphika si vuto. Ana ambiri amangofunika nthawi yochulukirapo kuti athe kuwongolera chikhodzodzo ndi kuzindikira zathupi. Maphunziro a potty amagwira ntchito bwino mukatsatira zomwe mwana wanu akukuuzani. Chitani maphunziro a potty ngati mgwirizano, osati ndondomeko. Kuphunzitsa potty kumafuna kuleza mtima komanso kusasinthasintha.
Kukonzekera mwakuthupi ndi umboni woonekeratu wakuti thupi la mwana wanu likugwira ntchito ndi malingaliro ogwiritsira ntchito potty. Yang'anani zizindikiro izi zokonzekera maphunziro a potty m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Iwo amawonekera mu matewera, mu kaimidwe, ndi kachitidwe kakang'ono kodziimira.
Kutambasula kowuma ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zodalirika za kukonzekera maphunziro a potty. Mwana yemwe amakhala wouma kwa maola awiri kapena kuposerapo masana, kapena kudzuka wowuma kuchokera ku tulo, amakumana ndi lamulo lenileni la 3 Day Potty Training Method amagwiritsa ntchito kuweruza kukonzekera masana. Gwiritsani ntchito tebulo ili ngati mndandanda wanu:
Gulu |
Chizindikiro Chokonzekera Mwathupi |
Zimene Izo Imasonyeza |
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Zouma zowuma |
Imadzuka kwa maola 1.5-2 ndikugona ndi thewera louma kapena lonyowa kwambiri |
Minofu ya chikhodzodzo ikukula komanso dongosolo lamanjenje likukhwima |
Zouma zowuma |
Maola awiri kapena ochulukirapo pakati pa kusintha kwa diaper ali maso |
Kukula kwa chikhodzodzo ndikuwongolera kukula |
Zouma zowuma |
Thewera limakhala louma pakapita maulendo ena (sitolo, paki) |
Kuwongolera kwa chikhodzodzo zomwe zikukhala zodziwikiratu |
Zouma zowuma |
Mwachionekere Matewera ochepa omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito patsiku kuposa mwezi umodzi kapena iwiri yapitayo |
Kusintha kuchoka ku zodziwikiratu kupita ku kuwongolera koyambirira |
Chidziwitso cha diaper |
Imani kaye, kuyimirira, kapena kuyang'ana zochitika zapakati pamene mukuyenda |
Mwana amazindikira kumverera kwa kupita |
Chidziwitso cha diaper |
Imabisala kuseri kwa mipando kapena pakona kuti iwonongeke |
Amamvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika ndipo amafuna kukhala zachinsinsi |
Chidziwitso cha diaper |
Akunena mawu ngati 'ndikukodza' kapena 'poopoo,' kapena kuloza thewera |
Amagwirizanitsa malingaliro a thupi ndi zotsatira zake |
Chidziwitso cha diaper |
Imawonetsa kusapeza bwino ndi thewera lonyowa kapena lakuda ndikufunsa kuti asinthidwe |
Amamvetsetsa chifukwa chake ndi zotsatira zake |
Zizindikiro zodziwika bwino za kukonzekera maphunziro amphika ndizofunikira kwambiri kuposa gawo lililonse. Kugona kamodzi kowuma ndi chiyambi chabwino. Mawonekedwe owuma owuma komanso kuzindikira kwa thewera kumakuuzani kuti kukonzekera kwenikweni kukumanga.
Kukula kwa magalimoto ndi gawo lothandiza koma lomwe nthawi zambiri limanyalanyazidwa pokonzekera maphunziro a potty. Mwana wanu ayenera kukhala bwinobwino pa mphika, kuyimirira popanda thandizo, ndi kupita kuchimbudzi. Yang'anani zizindikiro izi za kukonzekera potty:
Kusuntha kosasunthika: mwana wanu amayenda pakati pa zipinda osapunthwa.
Kukhala ndi kuyimirira: mwana wanu amakwera ndi kutsika pampando wawung'ono kapena mphika yekha.
Maluso ovala: mwana wanu amakoka mathalauza m'chiuno pansi ndi mmwamba, luso lofunikira kwambiri lamagalimoto.
Kukwera ndi kukwera: mwana wanu amakwera sitepe kapena squat panthawi yosewera.
Kuvala nokha: mwana wanu amaumirira kuvala nsapato kapena mathalauza, ngakhale akuvutika.
Kulowa m'malo: mwana wanu amayesa kutsuka mano kapena kusamba m'manja popanda thandizo.
Kutsatira malangizo: mwana wanu akhoza kutsata malamulo osavuta a magawo awiri.
Kusafuna thandizo: mwana wanu amakankhira kutali manja anu akamamaliza ntchito yekha.
Kukoka mathalauza mmwamba ndi pansi, ngakhale mopanda ungwiro, kumathandizira kudziyimira pawokha. Kusamba m'manja popanda thandizo pang'ono kumakulitsa zizolowezi zabwino. Ana amene amanyadira kuchita zinthu 'ndekha' nthawi zambiri amaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi mwachangu. Kudikirira mpaka maluso oyendetsa magalimotowa atha kukuthandizani kupewa kukhumudwa komwe kumatha kukhala kusagwirizana ndimalingaliro. Kuti mukhale ndi chithunzi chokwanira, phatikizani zizindikiro zakuthupi ndi zizindikiro 7 zokonzekera & malangizo a akatswiri omwe ali mu bukhuli, ndipo yesetsani kupambana kwakung'ono kulikonse ngati kupita patsogolo.
Thupi la mwana wanu likhoza kukhala lokonzeka maganizo ake asanagwire. Zizindikiro zamaganizo ndi zamaganizo za kukonzekera kuphunzitsidwa kwa mphika ndizofunikira mofanana ndi matewera owuma. Yang'anani zizindikiro izi m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku:
Mwana wanu amatsatira malangizo osavuta, monga 'tenga nsapato zako ndi kubweretsa kwa ine.'
Mwana wanu amakuuzani kuti ayenera kupita, pogwiritsa ntchito mawu, zizindikiro, kapena manja.
Mwana wanu akuwonetsa chidwi chaku bafa ndikukutsatirani.
Mwana wanu amakoka thewera wonyowa kapena kupempha kusintha.
Mwana wanu akufuna kuchita zinthu 'ndekha.'
Mwana wanu amabisala pakona kuti amve, kusonyeza kuzindikira zachinsinsi.
Kuzindikira chikhodzodzo chadzadza ndi luso lake. Akatswiri amachitcha kuti interoception, nthawi zina amatchedwa 'lingaliro lachisanu ndi chitatu'. Kuzindikira kwathupi monga izi kumawonekera pafupifupi miyezi 12-18. Kukonzekera ndi kuthetsa mavuto kumakula kwambiri ndi zaka ziwiri ndi kupitirira.
Mutha kupanga lusoli posewera ndi kuyankhula. Funsani, 'Kodi mumamva kukodza kapena chimbudzi?' Mwana wanu amaphunzira kutchula kumverera kwake, kujambula poto, ndikupanga ndondomeko yopita kumeneko. Uwu ndiye mtima wokonzekera maphunziro a potty. Mwana amene amamvetsetsa mafotokozedwe anu akhoza kutsata ndondomeko yonse, kuyambira pakuzindikira kumverera mpaka kupempha thandizo.
Chidwi ndi mgwirizano ndi nyali zobiriwira zamphamvu. Mwana wachidwi yemwe amayang'ana abale ake ndipo akufuna kutembenukira akuwonetsa zizindikiro zenizeni zokonzekera maphunziro a potty. Mwana amene amapewa bafa kapena kukana kulankhula potty akukuuzani inunso chinachake. Mwana ameneyo amafunikira nthawi yambiri.
Kudziimira kumalimbitsa chilimbikitso. Ana amene amaumirira kukokera mathalauza mmwamba ndi pansi amanyada ndi okhoza. Perekani mwana wanu ntchito zing'onozing'ono ndi kuwongolera ndondomekoyi. Kupanikizika kumabwereranso, komabe. Kukakamizika nkhaniyi kumayambitsa mikangano yamphamvu ndi zolepheretsa. Khalani odekha, perekani chitsimikiziro chodekha, ndipo khalani opepuka. Zizindikiro zamalingaliro izi zokonzekera maphunziro a potty nthawi zambiri zimaneneratu kupambana bwino kuposa tsiku lililonse lakalendala. Pamene chidwi, mgwirizano, ndi kudziimira zimagwirizana ndi zizindikiro za thupi, kukonzekera kwa mphika kwa mwana wanu kumakhala kolimba. Khulupirirani kuphatikiza kumeneko, ndipo mulole kukonzekera kwachitukuko kukhazikitse mayendedwe.
Mwina munamvapo kuti atsikana amaphunzitsidwa msanga kuposa anyamata. Deta imasonyeza kusiyana kochepa, osati lamulo. Atsikana nthawi zambiri amafika pamiyezi ingapo posachedwa. Onani apakatikati apa:
Luso la kuphunzitsa mphika |
Atsikana (zaka zapakati) |
Anyamata (zaka zapakati) |
Kusiyana |
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Kuwonetsa chidwi chogwiritsa ntchito potty |
Miyezi 24 |
26 miyezi |
2 miyezi |
Kukhala wouma kwa 2 hours |
26 miyezi |
29 miyezi |
3 miyezi |
Kusonyeza kufunikira kopita kuchimbudzi |
26 miyezi |
29 miyezi |
3 miyezi |
Kukhala wouma masana |
Miyezi 32.5 |
35.0 miyezi |
2.5 miyezi |
Mipata imeneyo imawoneka mwadongosolo pamapepala. Moyo weniweni ndi wovuta. Anyamata ena amasonyeza chidwi ali ndi miyezi 22. Atsikana ena amafunikira mpaka 3. Akatswiri a ana amatsindika kuti nthawi yowerengera nthawi imasiyana mosiyanasiyana, ndipo kukonzekera kwa chitukuko kumaposa jenda nthawi zonse. Tengani tchati ngati kalozera wankhanza, osati bolodi.
Pazonse, zaka zapakati pa maphunziro a poto zathunthu sizimasiyana pakati pa anyamata ndi atsikana, ngakhale kafukufuku wakale adawonetsa kuti atsikana akhoza kukhala otsogola kwambiri pofotokozera kufunika kogwiritsa ntchito potty komanso kuwongolera matumbo ndi chikhodzodzo.
Ndiye kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani kwa banja lanu? Atsikana amatha kuyamba msanga, ndipo izi zitha kufulumira kwa iwo. Izi sizimapangitsa njira imodzi kukhala yabwino. Msinkhu wophunzitsidwa mphika wa mwana wanu umadalira luso, khalidwe, ndi kuzindikira kwa thupi. Yang'anani mwana wanu kuti muwone zizindikiro za kukonzekera. Mnyamata yemwe amatsitsa buluku pansi ndikufunsa poto wakonzeka tsopano. Mtsikana amene amabisala ndi kukaniza amafuna nthawi yambiri. Lumphani kufananitsa ndi azisuweni ndi anzanu pagulu lamasewera. Ganizirani pa zomwe mwana wanu amakukondani, sungani kuphunzitsa mphika kutsika kwapang'onopang'ono, ndikukondwerera kagawo kakang'ono kalikonse.
Kukonzekera bwino kumapangitsa masiku oyambirira kukhala osavuta. Yambani ndi kuwona zomwe mwana wanu akuchita. Tsatani matewera akunyowa ndikuyenda m'matumbo kwa masiku angapo. Mudzaphunzira pamene mwana wanu amapita kawirikawiri. Kenako sankhani sabata labata popanda kuyenda, kusuntha, komanso m'bale watsopano. Kusasinthasintha ndikofunikira kuposa liwiro pano.
Konzani malo musanayambe. Sankhani poto waung'ono kapena choyikapo mpando wakuchimbudzi chokhala ndi chopondapo cholimba. Lolani mwana wanu akuthandizeni kusankha. Zovala zosavuta kuvala monga zotanuka m'chiuno, madiresi otayirira, kapena zovala zamkati basi . Mangani kanyumba kakang'ono kamiphika ndi zopukuta, mapepala achimbudzi, sopo wamanja, ndi dengu la mabuku. Sungani zovala zotsalira ndi zoyeretsera pafupi ndi ngozi. Chomata kapena bukhu la mphika limawonjezera chisangalalo popanda kukakamizidwa.
Chilankhulo chimagwira ntchito zambiri panthawiyi. Gwiritsirani ntchito mawu osavuta, omveka bwino. Yesani kuwonetsa-ndi-kuwuza: lolani mwana wanu akuwoneni mukugwiritsa ntchito bafa ndikufotokozera sitepe iliyonse mokweza. Nenani kuti, 'Ndikumva ngati ndiyenera kupita ku poto. Ndimakhala pansi ndi kukodza. Kenaka ndikupukuta, kupukuta, ndi kusamba m'manja.' Nkhani ya chithunzi cha tsamba limodzi ya chimbudzi, zovala zamkati, ndi mphotho imathandizanso, popeza ana amamvetsetsa bwino zithunzi kuposa mawu okha. Lolani mwana wanu akhale pa mphika atavala bwino pamene akuwerenga buku. Izi zimamanga chitonthozo chisanayambe kuyesa kwenikweni.
Matewera ndi mathalauza okoka amatha kuchepetsa kusinthako. Matewera a Chiaus amagwira ntchito bwino pogona komanso usiku, komanso Mathalauza a Chiaus amalola mwana wanu kuyesera kukokera zovala mmwamba ndi pansi masana. Ganizirani za iwo ngati zida za mlatho, osati kubwerera m'mbuyo. Mukadabwa momwe mungayambitsire maphunziro a potty, kumbukirani kuti kukonzekera kumakula kudzera mukuwonekera mwabata. Kamvekedwe kanu kamvekedwe kake. Lumpha ziphuphu, manyazi, ndi kudzudzula. Chitani ngozi ngati zachilendo, ndipo tsatirani masiku ophunzitsira ngati nthawi yolumikizana. Maganizo amenewo amakupititsani kupyola nthawi zovuta.
Nthaŵi zina kusuntha kwanzeru kwambiri ndiko kudikira. Zizindikiro zochepa zomveka zimakuuzani kuti musiye. Mwana wanu akhoza kumenyana ndi ulendo uliwonse wopita kuchimbudzi. Mwina amakuwa ataona mphikawo. Ngozi zapawiri zamasana pambuyo pa milungu yoyeserera zimaloza chimodzimodzi. Momwemonso chidwi cha zero pambuyo pa miyezi yoyesera mofatsa. Kusintha kwakukulu m'moyo kumafunanso kupuma. Kusamuka, mchimwene wanu watsopano, kapena kusintha kosamalira ana kumasokoneza dziko la mwana wanu. Dikirani mpaka zinthu zitakhazikika. Kuyamba musanayambe kukonzekera kwachitukuko kungabweretse mavuto. Ana ena amakhala ndi pee kapena chimbudzi kuti apewe chimbudzi, ndipo izi zingayambitse kudzimbidwa ndi mkodzo.
Fananizani zomwe mukuwona pa tebulo ili. Imagwirizanitsa zizindikiro zochedwa ndi zizindikiro zokonzekera zomwe zimasintha.
Zizindikiro zakuchedwa (ganizirani zochedwetsa maphunziro) |
Zizindikiro zokonzekera (kusakhalapo kumasonyeza kupuma) |
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Akadali m'matewera pambuyo pa zaka 3 kapena 4 |
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Mantha amphamvu okhala kapena kugwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi |
Amakudziwitsani kuti alowa mu thewera lawo |
Ngozi zapawiri masana |
Amawonetsa chidwi kubafa |
Chidwi chochepa kapena palibe pambuyo pa miyezi yoyesera |
Amakoka mathalauza mmwamba ndi pansi ndi chithandizo |
Werengani gawo lakumanja ngati mndandanda wanu. Ngati mwana wanu akhala wouma kwa nthawi yayitali ndikukuuzani za diaper yonyansa, zizindikiro zokonzekera zilipo. Ngati abisala kuchimbudzi ndipo sasonyeza chidwi, lekani. Kubwereranso kumagwira ntchito chimodzimodzi. Mwana yemwe anali kupita patsogolo ndipo mwadzidzidzi amakana amafunikira kupuma, osati kukakamizidwa.
Kupumira sikulephera. Ndi kulera bwino makolo. Bwererani, sungani mphikawo uwoneke, ndipo werengani mabuku okhudza izo. Yesaninso pakadutsa milungu ingapo. Mabanja ambiri amayambanso kawiri kapena katatu asanakakamire. Yang'anani zizindikiro zomwe mwana wanu wakonzeka, ndiye tsatirani zomwe akutsogolera.
Mwana aliyense amaphunzitsidwa pa nthawi yake. Kuyamba pambuyo pake sikulephera. Zimangotanthauza kuti mwana wanu amafunikira nthawi yochulukirapo, ndipo izi ndi zabwino kwambiri. Ngozi zidzachitika m'njira. Iwo ndi mbali yachibadwa ya kuphunzira, osati chizindikiro chakuti chinachake chalakwika. Kuleza mtima ndi chida chanu chofunikira kwambiri pano. Yang'anani zizindikiro zokonzekera potty m'malo mwa kalendala. Mukawawona, mudzadziwa nthawi yoyambira maphunziro a potty ndi chidaliro. Kondwerani chipambano chilichonse chaching'ono panthawi yophunzitsira potty. Kutambasula kulikonse kowuma ndi ulendo uliwonse wopambana wopita ku mphika uyenera kukondwera. Khulupirirani mwana wanu, khulupirirani zokonzekera kukonzekera, ndipo muzichita tsiku limodzi panthawi.
Ayi. Ana ambiri amadziŵa bwino poto atadutsa tsiku lawo lobadwa lachitatu. Avereji ya zaka zoyambira ku US tsopano ndi miyezi 33. Penyani luso la mwana wanu ndi chidwi chake m'malo mwa kalendala. Kuyamba pambuyo pake sikulephera.
Zimasiyana kwambiri. Ana ena amafunika milungu ingapo. Ena amatenga miyezi ingapo. Oyamba achichepere nthawi zambiri amatenga nthawi yayitali kuposa ana omwe amayamba pambuyo pa miyezi 27. Khalani osasinthasintha komanso oleza mtima. Kupita patsogolo sikumayenda molunjika.
Onse akhoza kugwira ntchito. Mathalauza amalola mwana wanu kuyesera kukokera zovala mmwamba ndi pansi, zomwe zimamanga ufulu wodziimira. Zovala zamkati zokhazikika zimathandiza ana ena kuzindikira kunyowa mwachangu. Yesani njira imodzi kwa sabata ndikuwona momwe mwana wanu akuyankhira.
Pumulani. Kubwerera m'mbuyo kumakhala kofala ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhala kwakanthawi. Sungani poto yowonekera, werengani mabuku okhudza izo, ndipo yesaninso masabata angapo. Kupanikizika kumapangitsa kukana kuipiraipira. Kupumula modekha nthawi zambiri kumayambitsanso kupita patsogolo mwachangu kuposa kukankhira.
Mutha kuwonetsa potty msanga, koma maphunziro enieni amagwira bwino ntchito pamene zizindikiro zokonzekera zikuwonekera. Kuwonekera mofatsa, monga kukhala wobvala poto pa nthawi ya nkhani, kumamanga chitonthozo. Kukakamiza mwana wanu asanakonzekere nthawi zambiri kumabwereranso.
zilibe kanthu!